Here’s some milk, mommy … I bought it,
my 10-year-old said as he handed me a container of milk bought at the gas station.
The look on his face almost broke my heart. I know he’s 10 (actually almost 11) and growing up very quickly. He only calls me mommy when he’s upset. He’s grown up in many ways, but he will always be my baby, just as much as my daughter who is approaching 20.
Sometimes the simple actions of a child who has not yet really had to “face the world” can teach us so much. Such a small gesture – stopping with his dad on the way to school to buy me some milk; but it taught me, actually reminded me of a lot. As you see, I have already learned and apparently forgotten this lesson. I just needed a review.
I shouldn’t let problems at home, fights with my husband, money issues and such be visible to my children. Period. Never! As a parent, I have been trusted with these two wonderful treasures and it is my job to make sure they grow up happy, healthy and as equipped as I can possibly make them to face the world. I failed that morning. I think our roles were slightly reversed.
I was stressed over lack of time, lack of money and plethora of other things. I was making my breakfast/lunch to take to work and we were out of milk. I made some offhanded, grumpy comment to the effect of “I don’t know how I’ll continue to keep food on the table at this rate.” There’s some truth to that, but we aren’t destitute. I can buy milk. However, my son took those comments to heart. He wanted to help in his own way and make his mom happy. So, he took his own money earned from watching the neighbor’s dog and asked his dad to stop to buy me milk. It not only made my day, but taught me a lesson.
It should not be my child’s responsibility to worry about what’s wrong at home. I should also not cry over an empty milk container.
So, now as I continue this journey I started with last week’s blog, I will add remembering to always remain positive in front of my son to my bucket list of things I want to accomplish.
Until next time ….
Coming tommorrow: A’Tempting’ Tuesday — My attempt at a new recipe each week.